Missionary or Widely Open Position
The woman lies on her back with her legs spread apart. The man then lowers himself on top of the woman with his arms supporting his weight. Give him a warm and inviting welcome by guiding him inside you with your hands, gently and caressingly. If he is uncircumcised, this also gives you a chance to peel back the foreskin so he'll have maximum exposure. From this position the man has the freedom to thrust or make circular movements with his thighs. If he lowers himself closer to her and rests some of his weight on top of her body, his pubic bone may be able to provide gentle clitoral stimulation. The woman can thrust her hips up to meet his with every stroke. Rotating your hips in a circular motion will also supply lovely sensations for both of you. She can also grasp the man from behind controlling somewhat his thrusting movements.
Variation #1 ~ Clasping Position
The arms and legs of both the man and woman are stretched
straight out over each other.
Variation #2 ~ Pressing Position
After starting out in the Clasping Position, the woman brings her thighs together holding the man's penis firmly in her vagina. Added stimulation and unique sensations are usually what result. When her legs are closed, a woman's vagina tightens around her partner's penis giving more intense stimulation to both partners. This position also forces the man to enter from a sharper angle towards the clitoris adding more stimulation for the woman. The man in this position may also close his legs, placing all his weight on his partner.
Variation #3 ~ Twining Position
After starting out in the Clasping Position, the woman places one of her thighs across the man's thigh. the man can then hold the woman's knee tightly against his side.
Yawning Position
The woman can lift and bend her legs slightly with her feet flat on the mattress. Many women find this position more comfortable than the traditional missionary position. It allows for greater access to the vagina, which means that both partners will enjoy more intense stimulation.
This position can be further enhanced if the woman can put her feet on her partner's buttocks, adding a particularly delightful feel for the female as the male's pubic bone gently rubs against her clitoris and his penis rubs against the cervix or G spot.
The woman can tighten and push out with her vagina in rhythm with his strokes, or pulsate even faster, or hold the contraction for a few strokes and then push out for a few more. This will drive him right up the wall!
Variation #1
The woman can raise her thighs and keep them widely apart.
Variation #2 ~ Wheel of Karma Position
The woman lies back her upper body supported by pillows, with her legs spread wide. The man squats between her legs holding her legs apart and spreading them wide and enters her.
All-Encompassing Position
The woman raises her legs higher and locks them around her partner. The higher she can raise her legs, the deeper the penetration because access to the vagina is easier. If she has the flexibility to lock her legs around her partner then she can contribute to his leverage by squeezing him close to her or just hold him with her thighs. Many men find that the feel of their partner's legs around them to be a real turn on.
One significant drawback of this position is that some men find it results in hurried orgasms. For this reason we might suggest that you leave this position towards the end of your lovemaking.
Variation #1
The man can either be on his knees over the woman or squatting in front of her with her legs locked around his back.
Alternate Yawning Position
The woman lies back, raises both of her legs and places them
on the man's shoulders.
From this position lovers can attain the deepest possible penetration. Be aware that this position can allow too deep a penetration, causing irritation for the woman. The man should always take his cues from his partner and move slowly. The further back her legs are the deeper the possible penetration.
Variation #1
Instead of placing her legs on his shoulders, she keeps her legs together and straight, bringing her feet close to her head. The man would then squat on his haunches to enter her.
This is an enjoyable and very special position often found in Tantric literature. In this position the woman lies on her back on the bed. Her partner kneels sitting on his ankles close to her buttocks. From here he hoists both of her legs onto one of his shoulders. A little bit of guidance from his partner and you are both in a deliciously unique position.
This one is not for those who have problems with flexibility. You will both be surprised at the unique angle of penetration which many women find delightful. The penis massages the side wall of the vagina which does not get the same attention with other positions. If the female wants to try massaging the opposite wall of the vagina then all you must do move her legs to the other shoulder. The movement in this position is mostly up to the male. Some men may find it difficult to thrust with both legs on their shoulders but with time it becomes easier. Allow yourself some time to become accustomed to this position because it is a tricky one to master.
The woman lies back putting one leg over the man's shoulder while stretching the other leg out, and then reverse the leg positions, placing the stretched out leg on the other shoulder and stretching out the bent leg.
The leg changes must be done with some concentration so as not to break the connection.
In this position the woman is exposed with a brassy vulnerability which is psychologically thrilling for both of you.
This is not a position designed for speedy movements or rapid lovemaking, but rather a slow and intimate encounter. The woman lies on her back on the bed with the man kneeling and sitting on his ankles between her thighs. From this position he grabs her thighs and brings her to him. Her bottom and lower back are elevated while her ankles or lower legs rest on his shoulders. To add to her comfort you can place a pillow under her lower back and a couple under her head. There can still be some muscle strain experienced by the woman so this position can not be held for a prolonged period.
The woman can massage her clitoris manually in this position, or her partner can apply pressure with his thumb, since her weight is supported by her partner and the bed. The man can view the penetration easily which for many is an exciting sight. It also allows the man to deliver a sensual massage of his partner's stomach, breasts and arms.
Variation #1
The woman can draw up her thighs so that her knees are against her sides.
Variation #2
The man can squat on his haunches instead of kneeling.
Variation #3 ~ The Pressed Position
The woman can draw her legs against her chest and place her feet against the man's chest.
Variation #4 ~ Half-Pressed Position
As in the Pressed Position with the woman stretching one leg out.
Variation #5 ~ Crab Position
As in the Pressed Position with the woman placing her feet in the region of her stomach.
Variation #6 ~ Packed Position
As in the Pressed Position with the woman crossing one leg over the other and both under one of the man's arms creating a very tight fit !
Variation #7 ~ Feet in Air Position
The woman lies back with her knees drawn up to her chest, and drapes her legs over her arms and clasps her hands behind her neck. The man then squats between her legs and enters her.
Variation #8 ~ Feet and Legs in Air Position
The woman lies back with both legs raised and held together. The man squats and enters her. She encircles her thighs with her arms and presses and releases them rhythmically.
Variation #9 ~ The Bow Position
With her back propped up with pillows, the woman leans back with legs raised and draped over the man's arms. He kneels in front of her, clasping his hands behind her neck and enters her.
Variation #10 ~ Turning Position
While in any of the above positions, the man can help to gently turn the woman by grasping her legs and enjoy the woman from behind without withdrawing.
The woman lies on the bed with her legs draped over the edge and her feet resting on the floor. The man then kneels or stands on the floor between her thighs, leaning forward with his hands on the bed for support. The success of this position depends heavily on the elevation of the bed, which for some is not quite at the height required.
One of the beautiful things about this position is the range of movement possible for both partners. A woman has more control over movement as she can press herself against him to add to the penetration or rotate her hips for interesting stimulation. The man also has an unparalleled amount of leverage and freedom of movement.
Variation #1
While using the above position, the woman's bottom can be propped up with pillows and her legs over his shoulders while the man is standing.
Variation #2
The woman is standing on the edge of the bed while the man is standing.
T Position
The woman lies on her back. The man, laying perpendicular (making a 't') straddles the woman's leg farthest from him. For example, if the man lies on the left side of the woman, he straddles her right leg. The other leg lies atop the man. This position exposes the clitoris for stimulation, which either partner can do. Slowly rocking back and forth, thrusting the penis gently in and out.
