Kissing

 

Kissing is a very fine art !
When a couple exchanges passionate kisses all barriers dissolve,
and by gazing into each other's eyes, their spirits become harmonized.

Slow down and savor the wonderfully erotic sensation of each kiss.
Lips touching lips, tongues dancing with tongues.
Really explore and be inventive.
Use lips, tongue and teeth (very gently),
to press hard and passionate, brush softly and caressingly.
Suck their tongue, drawing it's whole length into your mouth.
Suck and lick your partner's incredibly soft, sensitive lips,
and respond to the many surprises that come your way.

Hint #1Run your tongue around the tongue, over the gums, across the lips,
in the corners of the mouth, up the neck, across the cheek and in the ear.

Hint #2Try giving lots of short sucking kisses on the mouth,
one right after the other.

Hint #3For a more mysterious approach try using a scarf to blindfold them and
maybe even tie the hands behind the back.
Suggest that they use their mind's eye to imagine that they are standing
across the room watching the whole session.
Now start out very slowly, kissing all over the face and neck using
your lips and tongue.
Then thrust your tongue into their mouth, moving it
from side to side and in and out. Very Hot !

Hint #4...The Tantric KissA Tantric love-making technique suggests that the woman place the tip of her tongue against the roof of her mouth, just behind the front teeth, as her orgasm approaches. The tongue is then offered to her partner, so he can gently and lovingly suck the sweet saliva produced from her climax. This is a special secret that has great healing
and medicinal value to the couple.

Hint #5...The Secret of the Upper LipThe woman's upper lip is one of the most erogenous zones of her body. A subtle nerve channel connects her palate and upper lip to her clitoris. the man can gently suck and nibble this area during love-making.
By visualizing this nerve, the woman can awaken it and consciously channel sexual energy through it. Stimulation of this area is achieved through deep breathing and constriction of the vagina.
By gaining control over this Tantric nerve, a woman can enhance the pleasures of love-making, both for herself and her partner.

Foreplay

Masturbation for Him

A Hand Job

Step 1. Apply lubricant to your hands.
Step 2. Grasp his penis with one hand, thumb down,
            fingers pointing away from on top side of penis.
Step 3. Stroke 1 hand straight up to head.
Step 4. When you get to the head, rotate hand as if opening a jar.
Step 5. Twist palm over entire head as if you were sculpting it out of clay.
Step 6. Stroke hand down with fingers on underside of penis, thumb on top side. 
Step 7. When you reach the base, start second hand right over first hand.

Hints: Maintain a continual flow, no breaks or stops and starts.


Mini Hand Job

Step 1. Create a ring with index finger and thumb of one hand
            just below the head of the penis.
Step 2. With other hand, move on head in circular motion,
            like applying paint in an even coat.
Step 3. Switch hands.

Hints: Concentrate all moves to first 1 1/2 inches of his penis.


Basket Weave

Step 1. Apply lubricant.
Step 2. Clasp hands together, interlacing fingers.
Step 3. Relax thumbs to make a hole at top.
Step 4. Lower hands onto penis snugly, like a vagina.
Step 5. Move hands up and down the shaft, keeping a firm hold.
Step 6. Twist hands slowly while moving up and down shaft.
Step 7. Combine an up and down move with a gentle
            twisting stroke.


Pearl Neklace

Step 1. Wrap penis in a 36 inch strand of pearls.
Step 2. Use Basket Weave method to stroke up and down.
Step 3. After unwrapping the pearls, hang the necklaceunder testicles like a sling, holding each end with your thumbs.
Pull the pearls from side to side.
Re-wrap the penis with the pearls at the base and usewoman on top position facing him, inserting penis inside you.





Masturbation for Her

Start with a Kiss

Suck the bottom lip with your tongue and teeth.
Tease the lips with the tip of your tongue,
Trace the seam of the lips with tiny wet flicks of your tongue,
Lap at the seam until they open their mouth and let you inside.
Thrust your tongue into their warm and waiting mouth.


Your kiss will get hotter with every
stroke of your tongue against theirs.
Hungry kisses, long and slow, they will
melt you right to your core.


He strokes her cheek with his thumb,
letting it stray near the corner of her mouth.
She latches onto it, sucking it into her mouth.
Swirling her tongue around
the knuckle, nipping at the pad
and releaseing it from her lips
and tongue with a pop.

She kisses his neck
and chest, licking and
sucking his nipples.
Her teeth are scraping
his nipple and rolling
it in her mouth.
She kisses and sucks all the way
down the trail of dusky hair
leading to his shaft.


His lips kiss a long, hot trail down her neck,
breasts and stomach.
He moves down to kiss her nipple,
sucking it into the heat of his mouth,
rolling it with his tongue and lips.
His other hand is cupping her other breast,
rubbing his thumb over her nipple.
He sucks hard on her nipple and she feels
the draw all the way down between her legs.
He bites his way down the side of her breast,
then nibbles over to the other and repeats the process.
His tongue flicks and laps over her nipple sending spasms
through her body.

As he is sucking on her nipples,
he reaches down and strokes her pussy with his fingers,
pulling the moisture up towards her clit and back down
inside again. He tries one finger inside, then two,
curving your fingers to stroke that sensitive spot inside.
He adds a third finger and spreads them apart,
stirring his fingers inside her.
His tongue dives inside her mouth, moving in and out slowly.
He drowns out her scream with his mouth
then moves his mouth back to her nipples
as the pleasure goes on and on.

Sensual Massage

 

Sensual Crystal Massage Techniques

Use very light pressure and avoid pressing against bones.

Instructions for Couples Massage

face down

1. Make circles and ovals all over the back.

2. Use crystal to work up and down back of neck.

3. Work around shoulder area, reaching under top of arm, over shoulder

    and around shoulder blade, then reverse the move.

4. Make circles all over butt area.  Work crystal into crease where leg

    joins body, working up and down and back and forth over area.

5. Use long, sweeping moves to move energy from hip to ankle.

 

face up

6.  Work crystal in small circles gently around ankle bones.

7.  Use circular motions, working up leg from ankle.

8.  Roll crystal into sole of foot, pressing in at base of toes.

9.  Work over tops of feet, moving in the direction of the toe bones

10. Work crystal in small circles over abdomen. 

11. Work crystal in circular motions on chest area, working around breasts.

12. Glide crystal all over hand palm area.

13. Glide crystal in circular motions against palm and fingers.

14. Glide crystal over back of hand, working in direction of bones.

15. Glide crystal up arm, over shoulder and down back of arm. 

16. Starting at wrist, make small circular movements with crystal,

      working slowly up to shoulder, over and down the back of the arm.

17. Use crystal to rotate on temples.

18. Rotate crystal all over face.

19. Roll small crystal in and around ear area, dragging crystal into

      contours of ear and rolling on spinal ridge at back of ear.

20. Pull ears away from head and move hands in circular motion.

Crystal Self-Massage

 

Instructions for Self-Massage

1.  Glide crystal all over hand palm area.

2.  Glide crystal in circular motions against palm and fingers.

3.  Glide crystal over back of hand, working in direction of bones.

4.  Glide crystal up arm, over shoulder and down back of arm. 

5.  Starting at wrist, make small circular movements with crystal, working

     slowly up to shoulder, over and down the back of the arm.

6.  Cross foot over opposite leg and roll crystal into sole of foot,

     pressing in at base of toes.

7.  Work over tops of feet, moving in the direction of the toe bones.

8.  Work crystal in small circles around ankle bones, pressing

     into hollows.

9.  Use circular motions, working up leg from ankle.  At knee, work

     crystal into hollows around knee cap with small circular strokes.

10. Use long, sweeping moves to move energy from ankle to hip.

11. Lie down flat on back.  Work crystal into crease where leg joins body,

      working up and down and back and forth over area.

12. Stay lying down, bend knees.  Working crystal in small circles, move

      in a square shape with the direction of the colon; from right pelvic

      bone up to right hip, across to left hip, down to left pelvic bone and

      across to right pelvic bone.

 

13. Sitting up or lying down, work crystal in circular motions on chest

      area, working around breasts. Use long, alternating horizontal

      strokes, first with one hand and then the other, from each side to

      the middle of your body.  Pass crystal from one hand to the other.

14. Work along collar bones and around shoulders, pressing crystal

      into trapezius from base of neck to top of shoulder.

15. Use end of crystal to work into hollows at top of shoulder.

16. Glide crystal up and down back of neck, gently on the throat.

17. Glide crystal over the parts of the back that you can reach.

18. Rotate crystal on temples.

19. Glide crystal all over face. Press up under cheek bones.

20. Release energy from bladder channel.  Resting elbows on knees or

      a table, use thumb pads to press into inner edge of eyebrow beside

      bridge of nose and rest weight of head on thumbs.

21. Glide crystal in and around ear area, dragging crystal into

      contours of ear and gliding on bony ridge at back of ear.

22. Pull ears away from head and move hands in circular motion.

Crystal Meditation

 

Crystal Meditation

 

Open your mind, still your body and free your spirit to be more receptive to the

healing energy of crystals.

 

1.  Surround yourself with as much quiet as possible.

2.  Make yourself comfortable.

3.  Apply some essential oil blend (if using) to your hands and inhale the aroma.

4.  Hold your crystal with both hands, spreading the oil on the crystal.

5. Close your eyes and feel the energy of the crystal in your hands.

    Inhale the aroma of the oils periodically.

6. Imagine this crystal energy flowing up your arms and into your shoulders

    and chest.

7.  Allow it to fill your chest and heart.

8.  Let it flow up into your head.

9.  When the crystal energy reaches the center of your mind it starts to see

     your thoughts.

10. One by one, each thought floats towards the crystal energy and

     disappears into it.

11. This happens again and again until all your thoughts have floated away.

12. Now the crystal energy drifts slowly down your body.

13. It flows back past your chest and surrounds your heart, gently bathing

     your heart in clear, calm crystal energy.

14. From your heart, this energy flows into your belly and pelvis,

     down your legs and into your feet and through your toes,

     until your whole body is filled with clear, calm crystal energy.

15. Allow yourself to bathe in this crystal energy for several minutes.       

16. Just relax and enjoy it.

17. Let it wash away any worries, discomfort or pain you may be feeling.

18. When you feel you are ready, slowly become aware of your body.

19. Notice how it feels.

20. Slowly open your eyes and enjoy your space as you look around you.

 

A Cool Idea:

Record your own voice on your mobile phone reading the instructions

and playback.

Phone Sex

For Both of You

Part 1 ~ Hi, Honey!

I've been laying here in bed, naked,
thinking about you all night.
What are you doing?
What are you wearing?
I've been fantasizing about having sex with you.
There are so many sinful things I want to do to you.
You are my weakness, I crave you, I can't help myself.
I am looking forward to feeling you sink inside my soft body.
I am so tight, I can grab you and milk you as you are screaming my name.
I can promise you pleasure unlike anything you have ever known.
I can't live another moment without touching you.
I need you more than my next breath.
You have always been a fever I just can't shake.
I want you to make me scream.
Are you ready for a mind-bending orgasm?


Part 2 ~ The Kiss

I can feel your lips on mine.
I am sucking your bottom lip with my tongue and my teeth.
I am teasing your lips with the tip of my tongue,
tracing the seam of your lips, tiny wet flicks of my tongue,
lapping at it. Open your mouth and let me inside.
You thrust your tongue into my warm and waiting mouth.


Your kiss is getting hotter with every
stroke of your tongue against mine.
Hungry kisses, long and slow, they're
melting me right to my core.


You are holding my head,
stroking my cheek with your thumb,
letting it stray near the corner of my mouth.
I latch onto it, sucking it into my mouth.
I swirl my tongue around
your knuckle, nip at the pad
and release it from my lips
and tongue with a pop.

I am kissing your neck
and chest, licking and
sucking your nipples.
My teeth are scraping
your nipple and rolling
it in my mouth.
I kiss and suck all the way
down the trail of dusky hair
leading to your shaft.
"Your body is delicious, baby!"

I can feel your hands all over my body.
The heat of your body against mine is burning.
I can feel you all through my body.


Your lips kissing a long, hot trail down my neck,
breasts and stomach.
You move down to kiss my nipple,
sucking it into the heat of your mouth,
rolling it with your tongue and lips.
Your other hand is cupping my other breast,
rubbing your thumb over my nipple.
You suck hard on my nipple and I feel
the draw all the way down between my legs.
You bite your way down the side of my breast,
then nibble over to the other and repeat the process.
Your tongue flicks over my nipple sending spasms
through my body.

(My breathless gasps of pleasure.)

You reach down and stroke my pussy with your fingers,
pulling the moisture up towards my clit and back down
inside again. You try one finger inside, then two,
curving your fingers to stroke that sensitive spot inside.
You add a third finger and spread them apart,
stirring your fingers inside me.
I feel your mouth on mine, your tongue diving in.
You drown out my scream with your mouth
as the pleasure goes on and on.

I had no idea you could be so wicked!

We are so hot we are panting and aching with desire.


Part 3 ~ The Intimate Kiss for Her

I put my legs over your shoulders.
You kiss me between my legs, spreading my lips.
Your tongue laps long, slow licks from my entrance
to my clit over and over again.
Your tongue strokes me, sliding inside me,
then out again until I am writhing against your mouth,
crying for release.
Your lips close over the sensitive heart of me,
sucking that small bit of flesh
into your mouth, teasing it with your tongue
over and over. I moan and grind my crotch
into your mouth. I hold your head as you
flatten your tongue against my clit,
pleasuring me until I arch up beneath
you and cry out with a shattering,
shuddering climax.
I rock my body to your tongue again
and again until my orgasm winds down.


Part 4 ~ Man on Top

Your cock is resting against
my pussy, the enormous length
rubbing up and down between the folds.
I am so wet, ready to take
every thick, hard inch of you.
I need to feel you bury yourself
deep inside me.
I reach down and grab
your cock, brushing the
head up and down against
my clit, teasing you at my
entrance. You watch me as
you enter me, thrusting slowly,
filling me up.
You rock your hips gently, stoking my building climax.
I want to scream for you to go faster, to take me as hard as you can.
But fucking you feels too good to rush. I don't want this feeling to end.
Neither do you, I can feel it in every thrust of your hips, in every hot,
caress of your mouth as I kiss your breath away.

I wrap my arms around your neck and my legs around your hips and enjoy
every deep thrust of your cock inside me.
My senses are unraveling as a shuddering, blinding, 

breathless orgasm rocks through me.

Your hands are on my ass, lifting me off the bed.
Your thrusts gain strength, driving even deeper now.
My pleasure is cresting again, "Oh, God, baby!"
I dig my fingernails into your back and shoulders
as you crash into me with long,
punishingly intense strokes.

Your tempo is getting rougher as you ride me,
harder and deeper, grunting with each grind
of your cock inside me.
Each time I think you can't go deeper,
you slam into me
making me cry out in surprise and pleasure.
Finally you are buried completely inside me.
You look into my eyes as you ram your cock home.
Each stroke is driving me wilder.
I cry out his name with each thrust.

My slick, hot walls milk your pumping cock as you lose
yourself in my heat.
You reach down between us to stroke my clit
with your thumb.
I cry out as a wave of orgasm washes over me,
exploding inside me,
splintering me into a million shimmering pieces.

Your body arches above me,
you throw your head back and yell
as your release shoots out of you.

My lips bite and suck at your neck as you fill me up.


Intimate Kisses for Him

I have to taste you!
I undo the button of your jeans and edge
the zipper down.
You are naked under the jeans,
your rigid cock spilling over as
soon as it is free.
I lean down and pull your pants
off your legs, a move that brings your
gorgeous length within an inch of my mouth.
I cup your shaft and balls,
wrapping my lips around the broad head.
You let out a strangled moan as I slide
my mouth all the way down to the base.
Your cock leaps against my tongue.
You feel so good against my tongue,
hot and earthy, as soft as velvet-
wrapped around a column of solid
steel. I draw you into my mouth
deep again, then ease back to suckle
at your crest.
You let out a hiss as I play my mouth
around the rim of the head,
then take you in all the way
to the back of my throat.
You weave your fingers into
my hair pushing your cock
deeper into my throat.
I massage your balls, stroking
my thumb along the seam in between.
Slowly I drag the flat of my tongue up and down your length.
I suck your testicles into my mouth and bounce them on my tongue.
My wicked hum sends shivers through your body, 

pumping your cock up harder and harder.
My fingers stroking around the base, I feed your cock down my throat and swallow
creating wonderful sensations around the head of your cock, my other hand massaging your balls.
You pump your cock into my mouth, your cum boiling up your shaft
shooting in a fiery stream, surging, losing control.
Your cum flows over my tongue like silk, tastes like honey and musk.
I swallow everything, licking and sucking you dry.
"You taste better than anything"


Woman on Top

Flip over.
I ease my body forward to fit your cock
into me at this angle.
My breasts are bobbing up and down
just above your hungry mouth.
Holding my hips you work me onto your cock
further pushing me forward and back again and again.
Each time I rock over you one of my nipples
drags across your waiting tongue.
"I want to ride you harder!"




Rear Entry

I am on my hands and knees at the end of the bed.
You are standing behind me on the floor.
You reach forward cupping my breasts and rolling
my nipples between your fingers.
One hand reaches down between my legs and
slides 2 fingers inside me,
then out, spreading the moisture up to my clitoris.
Again and again one hand strokes my flesh in and out
while the other massages my nipple.
You lean over my body and say "Come for me".
Your fabulous hands bring me to a mind-numbing orgasm.
Before my body stops shuddering you place
the head of your cock against my opening
and slowly press it in.
"I want you to take me hard!", I moan out.
You press my back down to the bed,
angling my ass to meet your cock.
You hold me by the hips and slam me back
into your cock harder and harder.
You lift one leg, kneeling on the bed
beside my leg to get deeper inside me.
My walls squeeze your cock like a fist,
tighter and tighter until your come
explodes inside me.
Another orgasm hits me along with yours
and I grind my hips
backwards to push you in deeper.

Intimate Kisses

 

Intimate kissing is another very fine art !

Genital Kisses for Her
The different ways of kissing the vaginal lips can be learned
from the methods of mouth kissing.
The vagina like the mouth has 2 lips and a tongue.
Use your lips and tongue to deliver wave after wave
of exquisite ecstasy.
Use your tongue to lick up and down between the soft folds,
then use your lips to suck each fold very gently.
Use the inside of the lips to draw and suck from top to bottom.
The clitoris, buried deep within the folds,
should be licked and sucked very gently.
Remember never to rub beard stuble in this area.
Hum as you suck the clitoris, creating waves of delight.
Reach up with your hands and gently caress her nipples.
Slowly work your way from the vagina up her stomach to her breasts,
pausing to suck each nipple very gently.
Continue to kiss and suck up her neck to her face,
drawing her lips into yours and sharing the tantric essences.
Slowly work your way down, repeating the same procedure in reverse,
to the erogenous zones on the inside of the thigh,
and slowly work your way back to the vagina.
Remember to continue the stimulation of the nipples
right through to the end of her climax.






Genital Kisses for Him

There is nothing sexier or more ego-satisfying to a man than watching a woman sucking and licking his penis. Make him comfortable, whether laying down or standing. First, ladies, start out by gently stroking the penis with your hands. Run your hands down and caress his testicles, gently kneading and massaging. Then give him a delicious treat; massage him all over with your breasts, running them gently between his legs and placing his penis between them while stroking him.

As you continually stroke his thighs, stomach and testicles, begin by licking the head of his penis. Run your tongue down along the underside ridge and across it. Find the "V" shaped notch on the underside of the ridge. Gently flick your tongue over the ridge between the head and the shaft. Here you will find the most sensitive spot. Run your tongue up and down the length of the shaft, sucking gently with his penis sideways in your mouth (like a cob of corn). If you are really daring, gently place his testicles, one by one, into your mouth and suck and lick them.

Moving further down you will find a very sensitive area between his testicles and his anus called the perineum. A few very gentle licks in this area will have your man writhing in rapture. (To intensify the whole session you may want to gently massage this area while sucking his penis).

Open your mouth, cover your teeth with your lips and slowly slide his penis inside. Move your head up and down smoothly and continuously. Very important, ladies, any stopping and starting will interrupt his concentration and enjoyment. Keeping your teeth covered, gradually increase your speed. Place your hand around the base of his penis and move it up and down in rhythm with your mouth. Keep a tight seal between your mouth and hand. Use your whole hand or just your thumb and index finger as a ring. Twist your hand up and down the shaft while taking the head into your mouth. Probe into the slit at the top of the head with your tongue and move it back and forth across the shaft. One very nice sensation to treat him to is to hum and moan while you have his penis in your mouth.

Hint : if you concentrate on relaxing your mouth and throat, you will be able to take his entire length into your mouth without stimulating your gag reflex.

Kama Sutra Variation # 1:While you are running your lips up and down the shaft like a cob of corn, give him deep sucking kisses. Then while still pressing with your lips, give him deep sucking kisses on his head while slowly pushing his penis further into your mouth, still pressing with your lips, and slowly pull it out again. Suck as you would the lower lip, then lick it all over, especially the head. Next, take his penis halfway into your mouth and forcefully kiss and suck it. Finally, draw it in as far as it will go, press the head against the roof of your mouth and suck as if you were swallowing it. Ecstacy !

After he has climaxed
slow your movements down and gently lap at his penis for awhile.

A note on swallowing semen...
Every man will derive intense fulfillment from having a sexy woman swallow his semen. the best way to accomplish this task is to swallow it in one gulp, bypassing most of your taste buds. If you just can't manage to swallow it, you can very gently release his juices from your mouth as you are slowing down your motions after he has climaxed. With each downward stroke, open your lips slightly and let the semen flow down his shaft. Have a wet and dry cloth nearby to wipe both of you up afterwards.

Man on Top Positions

 

Missionary or Widely Open Position

The woman lies on her back with her legs spread apart. The man then lowers himself on top of the woman with his arms supporting his weight. Give him a warm and inviting welcome by guiding him inside you with your hands, gently and caressingly. If he is uncircumcised, this also gives you a chance to peel back the foreskin so he'll have maximum exposure. From this position the man has the freedom to thrust or make circular movements with his thighs. If he lowers himself closer to her and rests some of his weight on top of her body, his pubic bone may be able to provide gentle clitoral stimulation. The woman can thrust her hips up to meet his with every stroke. Rotating your hips in a circular motion will also supply lovely sensations for both of you. She can also grasp the man from behind controlling somewhat his thrusting movements.

Variation #1 ~ Clasping Position
The arms and legs of both the man and woman are stretched
straight out over each other.

Variation #2 ~ Pressing Position
After starting out in the Clasping Position, the woman brings her thighs together holding the man's penis firmly in her vagina. Added stimulation and unique sensations are usually what result. When her legs are closed, a woman's vagina tightens around her partner's penis giving more intense stimulation to both partners. This position also forces the man to enter from a sharper angle towards the clitoris adding more stimulation for the woman. The man in this position may also close his legs, placing all his weight on his partner.

Variation #3 ~ Twining Position
After starting out in the Clasping Position, the woman places one of her thighs across the man's thigh. the man can then hold the woman's knee tightly against his side.


Yawning Position

The woman can lift and bend her legs slightly with her feet flat on the mattress. Many women find this position more comfortable than the traditional missionary position. It allows for greater access to the vagina, which means that both partners will enjoy more intense stimulation.
This position can be further enhanced if the woman can put her feet on her partner's buttocks, adding a particularly delightful feel for the female as the male's pubic bone gently rubs against her clitoris and his penis rubs against the cervix or G spot.
The woman can tighten and push out with her vagina in rhythm with his strokes, or pulsate even faster, or hold the contraction for a few strokes and then push out for a few more. This will drive him right up the wall!

Variation #1
The woman can raise her thighs and keep them widely apart.

Variation #2 ~ Wheel of Karma Position
The woman lies back her upper body supported by pillows, with her legs spread wide. The man squats between her legs holding her legs apart and spreading them wide and enters her.

All-Encompassing Position

The woman raises her legs higher and locks them around her partner. The higher she can raise her legs, the deeper the penetration because access to the vagina is easier. If she has the flexibility to lock her legs around her partner then she can contribute to his leverage by squeezing him close to her or just hold him with her thighs. Many men find that the feel of their partner's legs around them to be a real turn on.
One significant drawback of this position is that some men find it results in hurried orgasms. For this reason we might suggest that you leave this position towards the end of your lovemaking.

Variation #1
The man can either be on his knees over the woman or squatting in front of her with her legs locked around his back.

Alternate Yawning Position

The woman lies back, raises both of her legs and places them
on the man's shoulders.
From this position lovers can attain the deepest possible penetration. Be aware that this position can allow too deep a penetration, causing irritation for the woman. The man should always take his cues from his partner and move slowly. The further back her legs are the deeper the possible penetration.

Variation #1

Instead of placing her legs on his shoulders, she keeps her legs together and straight, bringing her feet close to her head. The man would then squat on his haunches to enter her.

Missionary Position with Tantric Essences

This is an enjoyable and very special position often found in Tantric literature. In this position the woman lies on her back on the bed. Her partner kneels sitting on his ankles close to her buttocks. From here he hoists both of her legs onto one of his shoulders. A little bit of guidance from his partner and you are both in a deliciously unique position.
This one is not for those who have problems with flexibility. You will both be surprised at the unique angle of penetration which many women find delightful. The penis massages the side wall of the vagina which does not get the same attention with other positions. If the female wants to try massaging the opposite wall of the vagina then all you must do move her legs to the other shoulder. The movement in this position is mostly up to the male. Some men may find it difficult to thrust with both legs on their shoulders but with time it becomes easier. Allow yourself some time to become accustomed to this position because it is a tricky one to master.

Splitting a Bamboo Position

The woman lies back putting one leg over the man's shoulder while stretching the other leg out, and then reverse the leg positions, placing the stretched out leg on the other shoulder and stretching out the bent leg.
The leg changes must be done with some concentration so as not to break the connection.
In this position the woman is exposed with a brassy vulnerability which is psychologically thrilling for both of you.

Indrani Position

This is not a position designed for speedy movements or rapid lovemaking, but rather a slow and intimate encounter. The woman lies on her back on the bed with the man kneeling and sitting on his ankles between her thighs. From this position he grabs her thighs and brings her to him. Her bottom and lower back are elevated while her ankles or lower legs rest on his shoulders. To add to her comfort you can place a pillow under her lower back and a couple under her head. There can still be some muscle strain experienced by the woman so this position can not be held for a prolonged period.
The woman can massage her clitoris manually in this position, or her partner can apply pressure with his thumb, since her weight is supported by her partner and the bed. The man can view the penetration easily which for many is an exciting sight. It also allows the man to deliver a sensual massage of his partner's stomach, breasts and arms.

Variation #1
The woman can draw up her thighs so that her knees are against her sides.

Variation #2
The man can squat on his haunches instead of kneeling.

Variation #3 ~ The Pressed Position
The woman can draw her legs against her chest and place her feet against the man's chest.

Variation #4 ~ Half-Pressed Position
As in the Pressed Position with the woman stretching one leg out.

Variation #5 ~ Crab Position
As in the Pressed Position with the woman placing her feet in the region of her stomach.

Variation #6 ~ Packed Position
As in the Pressed Position with the woman crossing one leg over the other and both under one of the man's arms creating a very tight fit !

Variation #7 ~ Feet in Air Position
The woman lies back with her knees drawn up to her chest, and drapes her legs over her arms and clasps her hands behind her neck. The man then squats between her legs and enters her.

Variation #8 ~ Feet and Legs in Air Position
The woman lies back with both legs raised and held together. The man squats and enters her. She encircles her thighs with her arms and presses and releases them rhythmically.

Variation #9 ~ The Bow Position
With her back propped up with pillows, the woman leans back with legs raised and draped over the man's arms. He kneels in front of her, clasping his hands behind her neck and enters her.

Variation #10 ~ Turning Position
While in any of the above positions, the man can help to gently turn the woman by grasping her legs and enjoy the woman from behind without withdrawing.

Using the Edge of the Bed

The woman lies on the bed with her legs draped over the edge and her feet resting on the floor. The man then kneels or stands on the floor between her thighs, leaning forward with his hands on the bed for support. The success of this position depends heavily on the elevation of the bed, which for some is not quite at the height required.
One of the beautiful things about this position is the range of movement possible for both partners. A woman has more control over movement as she can press herself against him to add to the penetration or rotate her hips for interesting stimulation. The man also has an unparalleled amount of leverage and freedom of movement.

Variation #1

    While using the above position, the woman's bottom can be propped up with pillows and her legs over his shoulders while the man is standing.



Variation #2
The woman is standing on the edge of the bed while the man is standing.

T Position

The woman lies on her back. The man, laying perpendicular (making a 't') straddles the woman's leg farthest from him. For example, if the man lies on the left side of the woman, he straddles her right leg. The other leg lies atop the man. This position exposes the clitoris for stimulation, which either partner can do. Slowly rocking back and forth, thrusting the penis gently in and out.

Woman on Top Positions

 

The man lies on his back while his partner straddles
his torso. She can either rest on her knees, or squat
on her feet which provides more range of movement.
She controls the rhythm and depth of penetration.
Start with a nipple massage.
Rub your breasts all over his body.
Take his penis in hand and rub your moist vaginal
lips and clitoris against it.
Tease the head of his penis by sliding it
back and forth across your opening,
occasionally inserting the tip and taking
it out again.
Finally, slide him in gently and slowly,
with or without hands.
Lean forward, resting on your
hands or elbows, and thrust hips,
up and down, around and around,
side to side, moving your whole
body or just your pelvis.
Remember to squeeze
and release with
your vaginal muscles.
An interesting idea
is to just rock back and
forth or in a circular motion
while resting on your
partner's body.
There is more clitoral
stimulation this way,
and it also has the advantage
of the feeling of deep penetration,
which some women really like.
Another great advantage is that this motion
is less stimulating for a man, and he can often
last longer this way.
As an extra treat let him watch as you play with
your nipples and masturbate yourself.
This is a sight most men find highly erotic,
and your increased gyrations will make him even hotter.
You can even invite him to do some of the stroking himself.




Variation #1- Woman Leans Backward

Variation #2 ~ Inverted Position
The woman lies straight out on the outstretched body of her partner. By parting the vaginal lips she is exposed to his pubic bone.

Variation #3 ~ Clasping Feet
The woman lies straight out on the outstretched body
of her partner, facing his feet.
He holds her feet as she holds his feet.


Woman On Top - Open and Closed
The man lies on his back with his legs
spread apart. She straddles his torso
and allows him to enter her normally.
She then lies on top of him closing
her thighs. Because her thighs are
closed, more pressure is placed on the
penis which can be pleasurable to both
men and women. The sensations are
intense and this position will
normally bring most men to
orgasm quite quickly.



About Face - Woman Kneeling
This position requires that the woman sit with her back to him.
The man lies on the bed and the female straddles his torso,
kneeling on either side of him. From this position she can put
her hands on his knees, giving her the leverage to lift off.
This position forces the penis into an uncommon angle,
which many women find extremely exciting.
If she wants to give him additional stimulation during
this position she can reach down with one of her hands and
massage his testicles. Gentle pulling or massaging is often
very desirable for men. You could also massage your clitoris
at the same time or rub his testicles against it.


About Face - The Swing
This position requires that the woman sit with her back to him.
The man lies on the bed and the female straddles his torso,
kneeling on either side of him. From this position she can bend
all the way forward, rubbing her breasts against his lower legs.
This position forces the penis into another uncommon angle,
which many women find extremely exciting.
She rocks her body forward and backward, covering and uncovering
his penis as she moves. She needs to be careful not to move too
far and let his penis slip out of her vagina. The swinging
movements of her vagina across the head of his penis are
especially sensual to him. He can hold her bottom and
watch between her legs to see his penis being stroked.




About Face - Woman Sitting
The man is lying down with the
woman sitting and
straddling his crotch with
her back to him.


Woman On Top -
The Ultimate Embrace
This position is not simple sex,
it's true lovemaking in the
complete sense of the word.
Begin with the woman on top
position. The woman should
sit up straight and get
comfortable. Now, the man sits
up with her, holding her in his
arms and she holding him.
Now the important part: do nothing.
Don't move, just look at each other,
hold each other or talk
lovingly to one another.
Kiss for a while, laugh,
close your eyes.
For the next while,
just enjoy the feeling
of ultimate closeness
and tenderness.
Those deeply in love
will relish this one the most.

Reverse Slav
The man lies on his back with his knees drawn up to his chest.
The woman squats over his penis, holding his ankles.

Sideways Positions

 

Both partners lie on their sides.

Variation #1 ~ Obstacle-Removing Position
The man raises one of his legs over her hip
and leaves the other leg lying on the bed.



Variation #2 ~ Tension Position
The woman raises one of her legs over
her hip and leaves the other under
his top leg.

Variation #3 ~ Crab Position
The man lies between the woman's
thighs with one of her legs under him
and the other thrown over him.

Variation #4 ~ Balance Position
The man and woman lie straight on
their sides, without any movement or
change in the position of their limbs.
Love-making is gentle and focuses on
rhythm and breathing.

Variation #5 ~ Woman in Fetal Position
The woman lies on her side and bends
both legs to her chest, wrapping both
arms around herself in an embrace.
The man wraps his arms around her body,
holding her legs to her body and enters
her from behind.

Lovers Arch
The woman lies on her side and spreads her legs.
The man lies between her legs crossing his body to hers.
She rests her top leg on his waist.
She holds his ankles and he holds her shoulder and bottom.
She is looking at his feet, he is looking at her back.

Sitting Positions

Face to Face
Simply sit face to face and wrap
your legs around his waist.
Pillows may be required to raise
the woman to the correct level to
be entered comfortably.
He may have to support his weight
by leaning back on his hands or
support his back with pillows.
Just look him straight in the eye
and grind your hips.
For more comfort, sit on a chair
or love seat.
This same position can be used while
sitting on a park bench, picnic table,
swing, etc.





Variation #1 ~ Lotus Position
The man sits cross-legged
in the Lotus Position.
The woman should sit
on his lap,
wrapping her legs
around his waist.
There is little need
for movement
being that the genitals
are in the closest contact.

Variation #2 ~ Upper Leg Position
While in the Lotus Position,
the woman holds one of her feet
and raises her leg slightly.
By moving this leg back and forth,
she can create exquisite love-sensations.

Variation #3 ~ Bird Position
Sitting face to face with the woman's
legs on top the man enters her and
rises on his feet, knees bent,
and rolls her onto her back holding
her calves over his arms.

Variation #3
Mountain Goat Facing a Tree Position
The man sits and has the woman
sit in his lap, her legs wide and
her back to him.
The man grasps her under her knees
and holds her to him, rhythmically
moving their bodies.




2 Crabs
Sitting face to face,
both raise your knees
keeping feet flat on the
floor, lean back on straight
arms. Once he has inserted
into your vagina,
you can rock
forward and back,
thrusting and retreating.
Your movements are contained
but the view you have of each
other's genitals is incredibly sexy.
Try this position with the man
sitting in a chair!

Variation #1 ~ Quenching Position
While in the 2 crabs position,
each partner grabs the other's feet.
Sexual energy is released and circulated
by this position, invigorating and delighting
both partners.

Variation #2 ~ Gaining-Restraining Position
While in 2 Crabs Position both lift
their legs and anchor under
arms of partner.
Each hold the other's shoulders
and rock back and forth.

Variation #3 ~ Gemini Position
The man sits with his legs wide apart
and the woman sits between them.
Each partner clasps hand behind the
other's neck and the man presses her
thighs together by holds her knees
with his elbows.

Variation #4 ~ Roaring Position
This position is suited to a strong
man and a light woman.
The man sits on his heels holding the
woman on his lap. He raises her up by
passing both her legs over his arms.
He then uses his elbows to move her about
from left to right.
This gives great pleasure to the woman.

Variation #4 ~ Monkey Position
Use the same position
as in the Roaring Position
but the man makes the
movements backward and
forward instead of from
side to side.
This requires
great strength.



      

Woman Sitting, Man Standing
Or...A Slow Comfortable Screw
Up Against the Wall!
The secret is to find a surface for the
woman to sit on that is slightly shorter
than your man's crotch. In this position
the man doesn't have to support
himself or you and can thrust away wildly.
His hands and yours are
free to explore where they may.
He can also grasp the woman's ankles
and spread her legs apart.
This position also provides each
partner with a full view of the
other's genitals.
Once you get the hang of it you
can take this
show on the road.
It is convenient
for sex on the
move because very little
disrobing is required,
and this adds a touch of urgency
and secretly
stolen pleasure to the occasion.



Windmill
Begin sitting face to face, your legs
on top of his, his penis securely plugged in.
Then both of you lie back flat on the bed,
each person's upper body between the other's
spread-eagled legs. You can either join hands
or use them to play. Instead of thrusting,
your pelvises should twist and knead with
varying rhythms and pressures.
The man can stay hard for a long time.




Rear Entry - In a Chair
This position is particularly great
for those men who have limited mobility
due to accident or illness. The man just
sits comfortably upright in a chair while
the woman sits down on his lap as if she
was using the chair as well. Her back is
pressed to his chest. The onus is on the
woman to provide all the movement in this
position but this movement
is extremely easy.
With the support of her arms
the woman can
use her legs to
move rapidly or slowly.
The woman can keep her legs inside his
or spread them wide around his thighs.
Hold on to something and bounce up and
down or simply stay seated and bump
and grind your hips. He will have
easy access to her breasts
and clitoris and her
to his scrotum.
If a chair is not
convenient for you
then you may wish to try a similar
position on your bed.
The man kneels down with his buttocks
on his ankles. The female is directly
in front of him allowing themselves to be
elegantly joined. There is not a great deal
of movement available to the couple
but this position is very sensual
and is recommended
for afterplay.
When the couple is sitting joined,
the man can fondle her breasts or
even massage her back.
Often it is very satisfying
just to sit and hold her with
soft music in the background.
From this position you both can
move in unison and lay down on
your sides allowing greater comfort
for both partners.